Loving others isn't an option; it's a requirement....

 Colossians 3:12-14says, Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.
Also, in john 13:34 Jesus said, "A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another."
Loving others isn't an option; it's a requirement -- a command. As a follower of Christ, there are no excuses for not loving someone.

WHAT DOES 21ST-CENTURY CHRISTIAN YOUTH NEED?

We thank the God of heaven that there are youth in His church who love Him and make their best effort to live a godly life. It is both refreshing and encouraging to see their youthful zeal. If young folks are in the Christ, then I do not look at them as the church of the future – they are just as much God’s child as I am, and they are the church of the present. True, they may be future leaders in the church, and they may outlive older members and keep the church going strong, but I dare not count them as low-level or inferior members of the body.

What are the spiritual needs of our youth? What do they need in their lives that can help them to bear spiritual fruit and be ready to go to heaven after their earthly journey ends? I do not have a magic wand that can guarantee 100% spiritual success, but here are five fundamental needs of today’s young saints.

 

(1) To see good examples from adult Christians – Paul told the brethren in Philippi, “The things which you learned and received and heard and saw in me, these do, and the God of peace will be with you” (Philippians 4:9). We who are older owe it to our younger brothers and sisters to set the same kind of example that Paul did. As the same apostle instructed Titus, “in all things showing yourself to be a pattern of good works” (Titus 2:7), so our lives ought to be an exemplary model for our youth. As we teach them God’s truth, we must also live it in our own lives (Romans 2:21-23).

 

(2) To be loved – That is a basic human need at each stage and age of life. Our youth may never directly say to us, “Please love me,” but, in fact, they have a tremendous need to be on the receiving end of agape love – the kind of love that wants what is best for them. They need to know that we really care for them, yes, that we “will very gladly spend and be spent” for them (2 Corinthians 12:15). They deserve to be encouraged and complimented for good efforts. Because our heart truly longs for them to have the most fruitful life in Jesus (Colossians 1:10), we must be committed to telling them what they need to hear for their personal and spiritual development. That includes discipline in two phases: first, education about proper conduct in God’s sight, and second, when needed, a word or action that warns or rebukes. Jesus rebukes and chastens those whom He loves (Rev. 3:19). There are times when our youth need “tough love,” but let us always approach them with respect and compassion.

 

(3) To be given opportunities to use and develop their talents – Servants of the Lord, at every age level, have abilities. As the Parable of the Talents shows us (Matthew 25:14-30), our Lord wants us to use for His glory the abilities and blessings which He has placed in our hands. Yes, He wants us to be faithful stewards (1 Corinthians 4:1). Like those of us whose youthful days are a distant memory, young saints need to use and develop their talents. That takes time. It also takes experience, but one cannot gain experience unless he/she is granted opportunities. Let us make our greatest effort to get our youth involved in the work of the local church – involved in visiting widows, performing tasks around the church building, reaching out to members who have left their first love, distributing literature, leading in worship (if brothers), helping teach kids, and many other aspects of the Kingdom. Let us take time to work with them and train them. It will pay great dividends both now and in the future.

(4) To develop close friendships with other faithful members of the Lord’s church – Studies indicate that when young disciples of Jesus have a close friendship with not just one, but several other young saints, they have a much higher probability of remaining faithful to the Lord through the trials of life that inevitably will come their way. While “Evil company corrupts good habits” (1 Corinthians 15:33), it is equally true that close camaraderie with those of “like precious faith” (2 Peter 1:1) can be a wonderful leavening factor, provide encouragement, and even supply “positive peer pressure” to keep a person from making foolish choices. Parents, you are making an invaluable investment in your child’s future when you provide him and his close Christian friends with opportunities to spend time together.

 

(5) To develop their own personal faith –This is the key, brethren. It is not simply of major importance, it is the key! The Bible says that what overcomes the world is our faith (1 John 5:4). The just/righteous live and please God by faith (Hebrews 10:38,39). Since faith is produced by hearing God’s word (John 17:20; Romans 10:17), then this must be the focus of our efforts! We must get our youth into God’s Book – teach them, indoctrinate them, ground them in the truth. The four matters that I have already mentioned above will be of no value unless a young sister or brother develops her/his own faith; not an inherited faith, but a personal faith that is a blend of conviction and trust that leads to obedience.

Do you know what? As I look over the above list of five things that I scribbled down today, I realize that even though I am closer to 40 years of age than I am to 20 years , I have a lot in common with my youthful sisters and brothers – my spiritual needs are basically the same as theirs. That is correct. While I may have to face somewhat different challenges at this stage of my life, in reality, if I am going to serve my Lord faithfully, then my spiritual needs must be met – the very same needs that our youth have. Hmm, I must be special, too! Let us pray for our youth and support their efforts to live for the living God.

 

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Moses Njoroge Gitonga.

A passionate youth mentor And a Motivational speaker

A Youth Ambassador (Laikipia County)

Founder Destiny Shapers Mentorship Program.

A Youth director.

 

Rights by Dr. C

Your past does not equal your future.!!!

I don’t know about your past or what it was like but what I do know is that it can be changed.

“Don’t ever let someone tell you-you can’t do something. Not even me.” 

In you there is a light that is waiting to be turned on. In you there are abilities waiting to be revealed. In you is compassion waiting to be shared. In you is love that is not yet given. In you is the person you are destined to become.

Your past does not equal your future.

Look into your own life. Let’s go back to your childhood days. Do you remember that kid in your class who always talks, seems to be districted and the prediction was that he was not going to amount to anything? But he did. Do you personally know of anyone who has proven that what they wanted out of life became a reality? Do you remember that nerd who no one wanted to talk to? But he or she has become a great success. I say that to say, you don’t have to go too far to realize that your past doesn’t equal your future.

If what you are experiencing is poverty. That can change. If in your past you had bad relationships after bad relationships. That can change. If you were told you are not good enough. That can change. It doesn’t matter what the experiences were, you can have a better future.

A quick note: You may have to change your mindset. You may have to believe in yourself before others do. You may have to start using examples of other people success to encourage your own endeavors, but don’t judge your future base on your past experiences. Everybody has experience that they sometimes which they could change but you know what, it is some of those same experiences helped them to be who they are today. What they did was use their experiences to propel them forward into being a better and stronger person and you must believe you too can do the same.

What do you believe is possible for you?

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I WILL DIRECT MY FOCUS!!!!!!

The lack of focus can cause people to neglect their responsibility and it can also confuse others.

Distractions are all around us but to make the best of our time and resources we have to learn how to direct our focus on the things that really are clearly in line with our goals. We must understand that even if something is similar or related if it is not our intended goal it is a distraction.

“You can do anything as long as you have the passion, the drive, the focus, and the support.“ 

Being focused is a requirement for success and although the journey can be rigorous at times we still have to maintain our focus despite how tempting the distractions are.

In fact, our perception on life is a result of our focus. That is to say, if we focus on the positive in and around our lives, our perception will be positive. If we focus on the negative our perception on life will be negative.

“I don’t focus on what I’m up against. I focus on my goals and I try to ignore the rest.

However, directing our focus is more than what is happening around us. We should be focusing on the things that we want to get done. By doing so, we’ll be able to achieve our objective.

“Goals provide the energy source that powers our lives. One of the best ways we can get the most from the energy we have is to focus it. That is what goals can do for us; concentrate our energy.”

For me, when I was unable to focus on a specific task I realized that I lose my motivation faster. Upon learning how to focus which came as a result of knowing exactly what I wanted to do, I then realized that I was able to stick with what I was doing longer. In fact, I see it through to the end. It is the direct focus that will help us to avoid the unnecessary distractions that will only take us off course.

What I also found interesting upon deciding to focus was a lot more distractions. I believe life test us at times to see how serious we are about the things we want. Don’t lose focus.

Our focus changes our outlook on life. When our outlook changes, our behavior changes too.

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Don’t dim your light to please anyone

It’s time to trust yourself, make your life count and it’s time to expect the best from life.

Don’t be afraid to stand out. What we do sometimes is downplay our own abilities so we can fit in. There is no power in that. Playing small is actually giving your power away. Have you ever been told that you did a good job and you downplayed the validation by not embracing the well-deserved commendation? If you have, you didn’t embrace your power. Embrace it and let those who congratulate you know you appreciate it.

Don’t dim your light to please anyone…

You have a purpose to fulfill and yes, you may not want to let those around you feel bad so you suppress your greatness but, dimming your light will only rob you of your own happiness. You have a gift, give it! Share it! Embrace it! Shine your light for the world to see. Don’t be afraid to speak your truth and although some people may not like it, you too have a purpose to fulfill. When you embrace your power you give your life meaning because you decide to share with the world what’s inside you. Your unique ability, it may not be like those around you and that’s fine but you are in this world to leave your own imprint, leave your mark of which may just change the lives around you.

If you don’t step into your divine purpose there will be people who will not recognize theirs. It’s time to shine your light! Speak your truth! Live your purpose!

We sometimes live our lives at the mercy of others because we want to fit in. You are not here to fit in. You are the embodiment of something great – you are powerful beyond measure and if you want to live your greatness you’ll have to embrace your power – your personal power. Your gift, your uniqueness, embrace it. Don’t dim your light to please others God gave you a gift and you must give it, live it, share it and embrace it. Give the world what you have and don’t allow anything to stop you from being you.

Don’t be afraid to rock the boat.

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Not Everybody Is Going To Understand Your Journey

Not everybody is going to understand your journey especially if you are going about it the unconventional way. If you decide to take the road less traveled you are going to come across people (friends and families) who will not understand your journey and that’s fine. But if you are okay with being misunderstood by others you’ll become more confident in expressing who you truly are and your desires. 

In fact, the only person who knows exactly what you want is you. You don’t have to explain yourself to everybody who doesn’t understand and sometimes when you even take the time to explain yourself it is a possibility that they’ll still not understand. What normally happens after a while is that you will realize that you have only wasted your time, so don’t feel as if you are obligated or subjected to explain yourself because you are not. I know it can be hurtful especially when you think the person who is supposed to support your dream doesn’t but don’t worry because you’ll find some people who do.

I sincerely support those who are going after their hearts desire and if you so choose to make your dream a reality, bear this in mind, you are going to find someone somewhere who doesn’t understand you or your journey. If you stop to explain and be approved by everyone you may end up confusing yourself. It’s better for them to be confused – not you. You are going to be misunderstood by some people and again that’s fine.

However, as you venture on your pursuit keep an open-mind and when you get feedback from others that you may not like, don’t take it personally because as we go we grow. Don’t wait to be understood by those who don’t understand your journey because if you do you may not reach where you want to go. And sometimes it is when you get where you have intended to go you’ll find that those who didn’t understand your journey final come around. Don’t wait to be understood – because some people will never understand.

What do you do in a situation where you are misunderstood?

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What Is worse than Being Poor

What Is worse than Being Poor

“Instead of giving myself reasons why I can’t, I give myself reasons why I can.” Unknown

You can have a life that is exceptional if you can look beyond where you are currently. It is important to know that if you are in pursuit of having a better life for yourself you can once you realize that the mind is a powerful tool. You may have seen and heard of many who came from humble beginnings. Therefore if you are in a situation that you would like to change as long as you are not poor in mind, you can have that which you want. What I think is worse than being poor is to have a negative mindset, a negative attitude towards life.

You want to give yourself reasons for the things you have said you wanted.

The people who have changed their outcome in life have a positive mindset, a positive attitude towards life. Therefore, if you want to change your situation despite your humble beginning you can if you can change your outlook on life.

A positive attitude brings strength, energy, motivation and initiative. Unknown

Our mind is powerful – it can be our greatest ally and or our worst enemy. It is us who have to decide on if we are going to use it for our pathway to where we want to go or have it holding us back from what is possible.

“I can do it” is the attitude you want to have.

For you to have the breakthrough you want in life you have to have a breakthrough attitude. Your breakthrough will be based on how you think. Your mindset has a lot to do with your outcome. You may have heard it before, but I will tell you again – your success is a matter of your mindset.

“If it’s hard, it’s time to do it hard. Moses Njoroge

 

YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE ONE DAY AT A TIME

In the end, it’s not the years in your life that count. It’s the life in your years. -Abraham Lincoln
Have you ever find yourself counting the days? I know I have, but what I found out is that I get fewer things done. In all reality the day is going to come regardless of you counting it or not. Therefore, you want to be spending your day doing something worthwhile, something productive, something that creates positive results in your life. To have a worthwhile, productive or positive result in your days you have to make the day count and not just counting your days. How do you make your days count, you may ask?
These five ways can help you make your days count:
Thinking positively – Yon cannot have a worthwhile, productive or positive results in your day if you are thinking negatively. How you think and what you think matters a whole lot when it comes on to make your days count.
Doing at least 3 things that is aligned with your goals daily – To make the progress you want in your life after you have identify what you want is to do something that will foster growth in the area you want to grow in. How you do that? You do it by deliberately doing something pertaining to your goals.
Do something fun – Doing something fun will help you to take your mind away from the mundane, as it is important that you have balance. By doing something fun it will help you to relax and intern help you to refocus on your objectives. Also, doing something fun is rewarding. It is also a means of you taking care of yourself which intern leads to sustainable success.
Do a good deed – There is never a better way to make your day count that to give back positively in to someone else’s life.
Spend time with people who supports you, encourages you and uplifts you – Doing so will help you to do all the other things you want to get done.
Make your days count!
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HOW TO SEE CHANGE AS A POSITIVE THING IN 2015

HOW TO SEE CHANGE AS A POSITIVE THING IN 2015

The start of a new year brings with it a lot of things: commitments, resolutions, goals and changes. While this is a perfect way to start a brand new year, the idea of changing what we already have can be a scary thought. We take this moment to reflect on the need for change in our lives and how we can overcome the anxiety that accompanies it.

Why Is It Needed and How to Accept Change?

“It is not the strongest or the most intelligent who will survive but those who can best manage change.”- Charles Darwin.

While it is one of the most difficult things you can attempt, the idea of dealing with change is also the single most important tool for personal growth and improvement. Whether at your workplace or your personal life, the only way to grow and move forward is by accepting that things will not remain the same.

You might be wondering how to deal with change without spiraling into phases of anxiety or stress. Here are some of the basic ways in which you can implement a positive outlook on change: See change as a challenge and opportunity; focus on the positives; gradual progression and appreciation.

See Change as a Challenge and Opportunity:

Many of us fall into the trap of the blame-game. If the change leaves damage instead of benefits we are quick to devolve into guilt or anger. Instead of following the path to negative thoughts view the situation as a challenge. In fact, one of the ways to embrace change is by comparing it to the most difficult challenges that you have faced in your life. How you coped with changes then and what followed as a result is a perfect way of making sure that you see the current wave of change as an opportunity rather than an obstacle.

Focus on the Positives:

All things have pros and cons. Any sort of change takes some time getting used to. Rather than dwell on the negatives, see change as a challenge that has to be overcome. If you can shift your focus towards what you can do it will allow you to be more adaptable, strong and creative. Furthermore, this increases your chances of learning something new instead of dwelling on the past. Reframing change as an opportunity is the perfect way of cultivating a positive mindset.

Gradual Progression:

One way to deal with any sort of alteration is to break it down to smaller details. What this does is it allows you to deal with change effectively while minimizing feelings of being overwhelmed. If it is an unexpected work project, break it down into components and delegate rather than trying to solve the entire thing by yourself. This prevents stress and will allow you to appreciate the change as a learning experience.

Appreciation:

The key to developing a positive outlook on change is to develop appreciation for every little thing as it is now. In that sense, accepting change is necessary and doing so ensure that you are living life in the present moment and not stressing over the possibilities and what will come tomorrow. The awareness that things could alter any minute is crucial in cultivating gratitude and appreciation for the present as it is.

You cannot stop change but you can do your best with change.

Whether good or bad, one of the best thing you can do to help you move on is to focus constantly on positive and acceptance that everything changes. The mindset for change has to arise within you and is often accompanied by relentless positivity and fearlessness.

Are you ready to give the New Year all you got?

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